Things You Should Know about People who is not much of an open book:
1. If you are interested on taking your friendship to the next level ,try to understand
one small thing.He/She entered your life as a friend your friendship
is the pillar the relationship you are planning is standing on.So never
let the friendship go weak.
2.People who hardly open up to many if opens up to you kindly respect that.
Honestly no matter how awesome you are even if guys are during to date you or girls
are waiting with open arms and during to be taken by you,a person who hardly open up
chose you to open up is a big achievement. Ignoring that is initially hurting
that persons feeling but actually making a full of yourself. He/She chose you
and if you loose that you are as dumb as the one who missed a
Diamond as he was busy collecting Peebles.
3.Complaining would not solve the problem but cause repulsion instead.
People who hardly open up takes time to open up.Give them time
to realise that you are included in their comfort zone.Even if they love you ,you guys are
in a relationship, complaining won't help much.Adjust with the fact that they don't share much.Trust them,studies have proven that people who open up less have been victims of misunderstandings but cheating is a rare case for them.Wait for them to realise you are the one worth sharing.
4.Difficult part is if you are close to such people you are left with no other option but to
sharpen your observation.You never know what's on their wishlist .May be just to know about their favourite perfume you got to Google a lot about fragrance and initiate a conversation .I have seen guys gathering knowledge about lipsticks just because their girl friends preference is not on their knowledge list.I have seen girls reading about fabrics and googling a lot just to find the kind of shirt her guy would prefer.
5. Communication is certainly your responsibility. He/she would definitely cooperate but they are never taking the initiative first.If you can emerse your bozo ego in the water of holy Ganges ,one thing you can be sure of.You are getting rewarded with a good companion for life time.
6.They would never clearly convey their insecurities .Yes ,u are not necessarily an astrology expert or mind reader.But if you can't atleast understand the person you love or you think you love then it is quite difficult o carry on .The only solution to this problem is do not do anything knowingly that is making him/her insecure. Avoid the friend who is poking you to play mind games with her/him.Mind games are not only make distance between you people but would loose his /her trust.
7. If you are serious about him/her cut off every link you have with your ex or used to be crushing over peepz.These people are the last people to take these shit.People who open up less are people who are blind believers of clarity. They usually hold lots of p patience in a relationship. That is the reason once they break up they cut of every freaking strings attached. They certainly expect their partners to be bold minded like them.They would speak it right on your face that they hate your exes clinging on.If you are not using the broom sticks to get shit of past cleared,you are clearly loosing the crystal clear present you have.Yes,true you got get rid of past if you can't spare him/her of the stupid confused human you are.
8.Believe it ,they care for you .Even if they are not showing off they do.If they aren't there are reasons you got to find out.People who hardly open up usually need a lot of public validation. They need to be assured that you are proud to be his/her.Be it social networks ,Facebook, or when you meet some friends give them the validation they deserve,they would take any risk to keep you happy.But if you know what they want and you are quite avoiding it.You may think you are not a show of person.What is your family members ,friends etc thinking? Trust me they actually are confident person and know the fact that they don't deserve to be kept a secret.They know pretty well that there are many who might love to be committed with them.So if you are presenting family or friends as alibi you are making them a scope to look down upon them.Literally you are avoiding the show of or maintain the secret for these people .And people who can't accept them are dumb by genes.
9.They are never fashion disasters. They might appear simple.May be the guy you are dating is not dressing up his best when catching up for a movie.Or your girl is wearing a simple shirt and denim with minimal makeup when she is going for a lunch date with you.But trust me these kind of people won't ddisappoint you one you Friend's marriage reception party or some party you are attending as a couple.
10.The best part.They are not dating your social status,bank balance or talent.They are dating you.They are indifferent whether its a roll corner chit chat with you or the town's best restaurant. They are not much hesitating to hit you place when you ac is not working.Their "date affections" are not much affected by the fact whether you reach them with chocolates,flowers or some expensive gifts
11.Buying them gifts can be a big deal.They usually like stuffs that are uncommon. If you are trying to catch their attention by gifting. Then a clear and vivid communication with them regarding gifts they like or hate is necessary.
12.They understand that you can remain busy.One thing about them is they usually get to know when communication gap is really duty busy schedule or intentional.Better don't do that because that is creating a gamer impression which you may not be.
13.Lear to take interest if you guy/girl is blessed with some creative hobby like recitation, poetry writing, music ,Painting or ballet. They love it when you are genuinely interested to explore their creative world.And if taking interest in creative world pains UR ass just assure them that may be it is not your cup of tea but you respect their talent.For heaven sake don't fake it.Faking would add another laughable cartoon creature to their list of"feed my humour ".
