Hovering arround a do gooder teen blog i came across a huge irony .A guy who is extremely fed off with his own problem calls his girlfriend "lovely" and "clingy" at the sametime.The guy mentions they used to be texting the whole day long .this continued an year and he feels he has much more to do in a day.Can any one tell me what the fault of the girl is??? A girl will not keep on texting unless she is attended and this continued for a year .And the guys now feels its disgusting .Well the guy may be attracting sympathy of a few loosers but the fact is if a human being puts up the habbit and nurture it for an year and suddenly her partner tends to loose interest, why does people overlook the frickle mind who gave up?? And the girl is clingy if she protests
At worst she's insecure, clingy, shallow, jealous, nagging, sensitive, emotional, dramatic, and annoying. But if you can't handle her at her worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve her at her best.She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste.
You call her insecure.
She holds on to you like she's never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she's lucky that she has you, and no, you're not available.
You call her clingy.
She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there's nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed.
You call her shallow and jealous.
Well we do have different kind of guys who nurture different thought about clingy and creepers
1. Sending texts periodically throughout the day.
2. Talking too much about the "future" of our relationship (Don't talk about being married when we've only been going out 3 months!)
3. You are not the only thing in my life and I neither have the time nor the patience to deal with you every day of the week, no matter how much I may like you. Don't call me every day.
4. Making a big deal over anniversaries, especially like 1 month annversary, 4 month anniversary, etc. I would probably bail right then and there.
5. Being my girlfriend does not entitle you to know every little detail about my life and my past. If you ask a question and I don't want to answer, leave it at that.
6. Don't assume that you hanging around when I'm in a bad mood is helping the situation. You may be making things worse.
7. Don't try to become buddy-buddy with my family. There's a reason I'm not close with them and I sure as hell don't want my girlfriend being that way either.
8. I like to keep my love life, my family life, and my social life with my friends all seperate from each other. Respect that.
But the fact is are girls always supposed to be what men want them to be? like he will continue texting you and your taking to much time in the latrin might also bother him.Sudden an year goes you put up the habbit and his enlightened mind told him he is depriving himself from stuff by texting you all day .And You?? You have to accept it .No matter how difficult it is to digest his ignorance and lack of committment you just have to. If you remain busy it is an issue and if
he is taken of by the cheap glam laden colours that are a giant leap away from his proffesion you are supposed to be okay. If you put up a question you are shallow
If you protest you are just impossible to handle
If you put up the fight he again proves his manhood saying any other guy if at all existed on his place would have killed himself .Just because its he and so on.You have to accept it if he says no one will ever be able to adjust with you .But if you say the same he might take it to heart well if you too share the habbit of taking it to heart you are tagged drama queen .But his kingship is never prefixed with drama.
If know you are beautiful never let you smile leave you .Even he does not deserve it or you love him so very much that you wont ever allow someone in his place,he would give somebody else your place.He would find someone like he found you to find someone he searched and failed to find in his ex.The one he failed to find in you would definitely be there in his next .He will keep browsing till all his hunger is fed .But as his "find me babe" bachelorhood project ends up his typical indian family would hang a bimbo on his neck fastening them up into holy marraige.And the papa of two -three would still take interest on others .And what about you?? are you a looser? no freaking way.You would obviously respect yourself more for the rest of your life . Not because the wrong guy left you or is still hurting you even if you remain together ,but you loved him more more than he deserves
At worst she's insecure, clingy, shallow, jealous, nagging, sensitive, emotional, dramatic, and annoying. But if you can't handle her at her worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve her at her best.She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste.
You call her insecure.
She holds on to you like she's never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she's lucky that she has you, and no, you're not available.
You call her clingy.
She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there's nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed.
You call her shallow and jealous.
Well we do have different kind of guys who nurture different thought about clingy and creepers
1. Sending texts periodically throughout the day.
2. Talking too much about the "future" of our relationship (Don't talk about being married when we've only been going out 3 months!)
3. You are not the only thing in my life and I neither have the time nor the patience to deal with you every day of the week, no matter how much I may like you. Don't call me every day.
4. Making a big deal over anniversaries, especially like 1 month annversary, 4 month anniversary, etc. I would probably bail right then and there.
5. Being my girlfriend does not entitle you to know every little detail about my life and my past. If you ask a question and I don't want to answer, leave it at that.
6. Don't assume that you hanging around when I'm in a bad mood is helping the situation. You may be making things worse.
7. Don't try to become buddy-buddy with my family. There's a reason I'm not close with them and I sure as hell don't want my girlfriend being that way either.
8. I like to keep my love life, my family life, and my social life with my friends all seperate from each other. Respect that.
But the fact is are girls always supposed to be what men want them to be? like he will continue texting you and your taking to much time in the latrin might also bother him.Sudden an year goes you put up the habbit and his enlightened mind told him he is depriving himself from stuff by texting you all day .And You?? You have to accept it .No matter how difficult it is to digest his ignorance and lack of committment you just have to. If you remain busy it is an issue and if
he is taken of by the cheap glam laden colours that are a giant leap away from his proffesion you are supposed to be okay. If you put up a question you are shallow
If you protest you are just impossible to handle
If you put up the fight he again proves his manhood saying any other guy if at all existed on his place would have killed himself .Just because its he and so on.You have to accept it if he says no one will ever be able to adjust with you .But if you say the same he might take it to heart well if you too share the habbit of taking it to heart you are tagged drama queen .But his kingship is never prefixed with drama.
If know you are beautiful never let you smile leave you .Even he does not deserve it or you love him so very much that you wont ever allow someone in his place,he would give somebody else your place.He would find someone like he found you to find someone he searched and failed to find in his ex.The one he failed to find in you would definitely be there in his next .He will keep browsing till all his hunger is fed .But as his "find me babe" bachelorhood project ends up his typical indian family would hang a bimbo on his neck fastening them up into holy marraige.And the papa of two -three would still take interest on others .And what about you?? are you a looser? no freaking way.You would obviously respect yourself more for the rest of your life . Not because the wrong guy left you or is still hurting you even if you remain together ,but you loved him more more than he deserves
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