Are you Treating them Right !

These days complecations are the main pillars most of our emotions are based on . Our life these days revolves around facebook and instagram. And the pages preaching stuffs like “girls be like” and “men will be men”.Social Media these days have been spreading such influence in our life, that some what we have started believing those stuff.In this internet reigned world we have partially lost our very own selves.We are not really sure whether we are matured enough to be sure about ourselves.Honestly if we take our time and do some little things,we can be better in many cases .Lets say for relationships ,we need our besties to advice thus.Why ? isn’t he/she totally human like we are! Why can’t we simply use our own brain and use our own experience to take better decision.

Lets first say how can he take better decision to judge how  to treat her better:

Imagine you have a sister ,she loves someone who is also in love with her.Now ,lets say she shares her personal life with you. Now let us come to the point.So far you have Nurtured many ideas like “look bro ,who is gonna take her tantrums like I do?’, “huh! She thinks she deserves better .Look she is not even leaving me.Huh even she know that nobody exist to take her mood swings”, and many more like “Mood Swings , don’t do this don’t do that huh!!! And she thinks she can mock my imperfections .lol!”

Wake up My Friend! Just imagine Some guy Nurturing the same ideas for you sister,just the way you nurture for her. Don’t you wanna punch the guy on his face?

Lemme ask you ‘Why?’

Okay I guess Your sister shows tantrum too,I guess she too suffers moods swings.Well, you have justifications here.”This is suppose to happen with my sis, after all she is a pampered child .After all little bit of tantrums and mood swings are no big deal.Guys should be matured enough to handle that”

Well ,yeah Maturity… so you are matured right? Still you failed to understand that the girl you are dating is a pampered daddy’s princess too. But your sister’s faults are normal while her faults are not really endurable.

WHY?

Trust me, if you think about it your concern if you had a sister.Then your idea of right behavior she deserves can correct the incorrigle egoist mistakes you have been continuing .This can not only make her happy ,but you can sta true to yourself too.

Now Lets come to Girls, Yes you people have so far blamed the male dominated society so much that if atleast 10 of your boyfriends would have collected those complain bouquet and deposited it sumwhere.I guess we could have got our second Mount Everest.

Yes , your Bro bullies you enugh but if he is your bestie too, would not you love to see him date a girl who keeps her happy. Well ,what criterias does she qualify through?

Your Brother is burdened with responsibiles that sometimes could be too much for his age.He does loose his temper often. He often fails to notice his vibrating phone when he plays badminton .Does he never fail to call back having promised he will?

Imagine someone blaming him of cheating or paying more attention else where,if he keeps somebodies call waiting. Imagine your brother is in love with someone,who claims to love him too,while she introduces your brother as ‘Friend’ in public.

Imagine someone trying to measure your brothers love,on the basis of what gifts he bought her.Brother is  compared with someother girl’s boyfriend .

Failed to have a promise kept is raising a finger to your bro’s upbringing.Yes my friend she is raising a finger towards your family girl!!

“b****”

Yes ! that’s what  you are mumering now.

Don’t you blame your man of us useless things. Thing what he goes through.What happened now?

You pretty considerate if your brother lost temper, or failed to keep promise.Why cant you be so understanding regarding your man “oh,he doesn’t desrve this”

Or  your experienced bestie said “ don’t let them man do salsa on top of your scalp baby”

If your brother deserves to be to be treated human .Why not him?

Before accusing or over estimating your behavior towads him.Imagine what you are doing to him being done to your bro by some girl. Now you get how to correct the incorrigible mistakes ,your besties taught you to take pride on.

Things You Should Keep In Mind If You are Dating A girl who is a Blogger

If you are dating a girl who is a blogger,you need not worry much about other men.Honestly,She is not even looking at other men. If she blogs about lifestyle,fashion or beauty ,you can actually come to a fair conclusion she watches the bollywood hunk starrer movies only when the feature actresses that are fashionistas,and girls are dying to copy them. So kindly don’t be disheartened if you are not born with Ranbir’s complection or your suntan or hair colour is not much Hritwik style.

You Maturity matters much more than her knowledge of responsiblity:

If you are a teenager,or you have maturity level of a teenager then this is not much a point for you. If you consider yourself a grown up guy,you must me sure about her intention. Remember ,she lives in a world where she is surrounded with clouds of creativity ,if you are with her for pretty long then you can be sure she is serious about you. Honestly, when she is serious about you nomatter how much you hurt her none of those negativity will ever have any reflection on her blog. But every good thing she writes about love, romanticism and relationships are surely the outcome of the best memories you have given her.

Gifts for her is not like go - buy -" Yeah She loves it, who hates girlie stuffs after all" :

She is not much “ I love gifts” person.So buying her gifts may be a lil bit tough job.Remember she loves simple gifts like chocolates ,hand made cards may be customized stuff that may not be very expensive ,still she will love them.

Read Her Blogs not to impress her but to help yourself:

If you read her blogs and she regularly updates,you do not have to worry much about her tastes ,likes and dislikes.Her updates will keep telling you.

If you don’t read her blogs ,its your choice.May  be blogs were never your  favourite  but if her blog’s also don’t catch your attention,It is not her fault ,its your fault. Infact,calling it a fault is a complete disaster,it is your stupidity.When you could know so much about things that she loves,likes and hates even without talking to her about such stuff is’nt it better. Trust me keeping the surprise magic in a relationship is certainly better is’nt it?

Her attachments to internet is bothering you? Why ? Its not the other guys chill Its her competitive skill, nothing else:

Her intimacy with her laptop,Tab even phone is making you insecure sometimes. Even if it is not really insecurity ,you do feel neglected.If you think you deserve more of her time let her know .

But for heaven sake don’t ever think that some other guy is the reason laptop,tab and phone is eating away the time you deserve. She is a blogger , she is keeping a track of her rival bloggers blog, reading her favourite’s blogs so that come up with something that is not much far from her favourites level,and pretty much better than her rival’s. Yes my friend that the story!!

Whoa...!!!! Her Choice Rocks ...keep thinking how she comes up with the best thing that fits budget:

She is the best person to ask for suggestions when it comes to buying gift for someone. Be it your mom’s birthday or your friends anniversary party. She is best person who can give you idea about the best thing that comes in your budget.

Aaahaa...Even that proudy fiance of your friend is her fan ..Its time to get your collar up boy:

She is superstar of your friend’s wifey gang kitty party. No matter how much they nurture cat fights for each other. She is no person’s target anyway. Her suggestions and experience facilitate them too.

Her Observations make Holmes insecure sometimes:

You would not really find her getting involved in small talk girlie gang. She is kind of an observer.She might later tell you some interesting thing about the place both of you visited may be you missed out.

She is kind of interest in every lovely thing:

Bloggers are not really cosmo-oggler. Trust me leave any girl who loves to dress up at that particular floor of the mall where world class brand stores are located, she cant help ogling. But bloggers are so damn used to with such trending stuff that she in real life takes interest in the rarest thing. From a migratory rare trait bird to some unusual restaurant in the town she is kind of interested in everything.

Her Photos ...oohh .Stop torturing that cute lil head of yours if its not you,its no other guy either..Her daddy cool can be that amazing photographer:

If she is not bothering you or actually never bothered you to take her photographs ever. Then stop wasting your time thinking who takes her photos. If her dad is good with cameras trust me he is the only man she trusts with her photo session. Honestly , if you have planned to plan your future with her take your competition seriously. If its not her dad , trust me she hardly believes you men can photograh her from the angle a fashion bloggers is demanded to. It has be her bestie ,some smrt aunt or may be her coolest mom ! you never know.The best part is you don’t need to bother .