Friday 31 July 2015

How to befriend Kids!!!!!


Ever wondered  how  your  friend  became his baby cousin’s favourite “bhai”, “dada” or “Anna”!!! Or may  be the girl  you are dating manages to be  her baby bro’s favourite “didi”,”jiji”,”akka” or “aapa”.
I admit you  genuinely love your niece or nephew no matter ,nomatter how hard you always try to befriend the little one.You either end up getting  a headache because the little one is too naughty  to be in  control.Some times  you  can feel  that  playing or  spending time with  the little one is just not your cup  of  tea.But honestly  what you  just concluded may  not be  right always.   
    1. .A-Awesome: A For Adeventure,But  keep it in mind the adventure should be  of  the little one’s level.
Hiding  behind the cutain  will do,let the little feel  like James Bond after finding you.If a little bit of Drama  never hurts when  it comes to a girl’s lipstick  or  a guy’s spikey hair styling.Then why can’t you bear  a bit of it while playing with a baby?
 Even if you can find out the little one in a second ,pretend that you are finding it  difficult .Trust me  the  baby  can  only  befriend you  when  it is assured that you  belong to  the same  mental  category.

      
           2.  The Don’t Factor: Cuddling  te cutipie is fun getting  them angry can  be sweet some times  but  avoid it.This not only  distant you  from  the kiddo  but  will  make him/her stubborn too.


      

     3.Be the do –gooder: For infants  reaching height is a huge  thing and  once you  help them  do  that will make you  their favourite.

   
    4.The protector  Ninja: Save  the kiddo  from  Papa-Mumma’s anger  and  the kiddo’s already your  fan.Protect the little one from the  kindergarten’s naughtiest lad that bullies them and you  will not only  earn their trust ,but they will love you  unconditionally.

     
               5.Taking Interest: Instead of pulling their  leg watch  their favourite cartoon  with  them,bring  them  their  favourite animation  cd.Download  cartoons for  them  and  appreciate their  favourite toy if you  want to  befriend them.


       
      6.Discover: Every Baby’s got some unique  zone of  interest like Music  ,Dance,Craft,Drawing and acting  


     discover that  and try to  make  arrangement to  groom  that  .