Tuesday 16 June 2015

Things you should remember when you date a girl who knows how to use her brain



1.Time:

She needs 'me' time and is ready to give you the same.


2.Transparency and" Be you" Freedom

She doesn't make any effort to impress you and that disheartens your male ego many times.Trust me,the glass isn't just half empty its half filled either.When she doesn't really male effort to impress you ,she is not expecting the same .That absolutely opens the way for utter transparency.


3.She is particular about what she deserves:

She doesn't appear possessive but not ready to share the time you reserve for her with anyone.Trust me she appreciate your social life ,but the time you save to give her belongs to her as per her expectation.She is not asking you for all your free time but a solid 30mins saved for her is not supposed to be occupied by you bozo buddies silly "watz up dude" .


4.You are not her agony aunt you are a trust worthy soul mate:

She has got a lot of friends but shares problems only with you coz she trusts you.If you think you have been chosen to play her agony aunt keep one thing in mind she actually deserves better.


5.She is smarter and can be real mean : 

.If she is not the one who hits ugly category and still you can't take your eyes off other women while hanging out with her ,be ready to get pedicree next valentines day.


6. She plays the updated"pro" version of our a mature mind games:

If u have planned to play mind games with her honestly you have planned to play a proud trainer unknowingly. She surely would get a grip to you bloody mind games.If she is not fighting about it or mentioning it ,trust me she is training herself as a better mind gamer and you are the targeted victim.


7. Its not show if but she needs to know that she is special:

Facing the world may be difficult and trust me she allowed her to post her picture in your profile means you are special.May be you need to know her friends need her permission to post a groupfie where she is.Value what you have rather than caring for what others may say.Honestly she is gonna stand by your side when others won't coz you are just another friend/relative/acquaintance in those other,'s life you think who matters.But she cares for you much more than them.Not giving a shit to them won't actually make any difference in you position in those significant other people's life in future.But not giving a shit to her feelings is inviting abandonment for which you and only you will be responsible.If you are dating a girl with brain learn the difference between selfish and harmlessly selfish .
Being harmlessly selfish sometimes can bring peace and happiness to both of you life.


8.Justification is her route:

She is open about her past ,in 90% such cases if you keep your cool and try knowing even if you find that she is the one who dumped many guys ,she had solid reasons.Stop feeling it from "am a boy I feel for a boy's pain" mentality ,judge it from a neutral side you can find her morality. This would make you gain respect for the soul she has.


9.if you r lucky that she is yours show that :

If you are proud to have her and feel lucky that she is yours show it.Show it to her ,show it to the world.She is not dieing for your validation honestly.She just needs to stay confirmed that the person she is showering her valuable time with understands her true value.One the other hand if you think that kind off show of is not your cup of tea ,don't drink it man.If you nurture the idea that every guys lady of is special to him,what's there to show? Yeah indeed if it was so why did you not select someone from those every other girl man? You chose her coz she is special ,you can deny it now but you literally tried you level best to get her attention.Now when you have it not giving it value is not boosting your male ego.Value it or watch somebody else doing that.


10.women certified "Best guys" are human too

The best guys are not naturally blessed ones.When you watch a bewitchingly attractive lady giving a peck on the check of her average appearing husband you guys get envious.Simple man that guy is much ahead of you.His wife never noticed his eyes loitering around other girls .Not because he is good in hiding but he literally ditched that habit.He also knows about his wife's flaws he is not good in hiding them he learned to overlook and forgive.He is good in expressing his heart,it doest not hurt his male ego to express his love for her in public.



So guys stop taking advice from your fellow friends they know women as much as you do .Learn what the person you are dating loves.You literally have to take initiative to explore her taste .Be awesome trust me you would never have bitter experience about women.She is priceless value her she would show you what your value is like noboby ever did