You are depressed ,sad and what not .Reason you partner is not
really proud to have you.Not really as proud as your parents are.You are too
matured for constant high school sweatheart PDAs ,a lil bit of it? I mean some occational PDAs
really revives the spark is’nt it?More
than everything else you want to feel special and need the world to know how
you get treated. But may be your partner is not much into all these.Your bff suggested
you to stay satisfied with the fact that you found some one loyal that’s all.
Wake up , You are much more than average and you barely deserve to
settle for anything less or average.You smartest friend suggested a break and
you are just too afraid to go for it.
Let me tell you one thing, did your parents required anything to be
proud of you?
No !!!!! Performance is a second factor they were always proud of
you, of every little achievement you ever secured. Hard work is not a result of
their pressure, those happy faces ,gesture of pride is all you wanted to preserve
all your life and thus you worked hard .You know why I spoke so much about
parents here? Just to help you get the paradox, why do you need to prove
anything to your partner? If the person is not the one to take an initiative to show u off to the world ,why do you need to keep trying?
I often see my friends going to malls and buying clothes of their
husband’s or boyfriends favourite color.Some started to change their parting
patern ,may be Mr. boyfriend finds the
face prettier the otherway .One thing I truelly wanna ask these bimbos ,does he asks you befor going
for a hair cut?
Lemme come to boys now, trust me
their situation is more pathetic. One of my friend is wearing girlie
shades ore these days .His janu’s a pinkaholic.One of them left gym and opted
for yoga and is on the verge of living all his life depending on green.Thank
god the green revolution happened bro! One of my senior reads vogue and
filmfare these days , even beauty blogs
actually his girl friend finds him worth less coz he failed to diffenrentiate
between two shades of pink to different ambassadors of a leading cosmetic brand
were sporting.Some of them get the news paper and check their partners
horoscope first.
And whats the outcome????? At the end of the day that particular
partner would be a sport with every PDA with their life’s every existant member
,but you? Nope !!! because some public display action over any social media
makes them answerable!!!! Nothing else
does ,but if it involves you!!! I am
telling you you Mr/Miss someone is answerable.
You partner will never be interested to share or show of your skill
or atleast aknowledge them in public.Forget it ,no one other than parents does
that.Yes keep it in mind that if they cannot do what parents can,they do not
have rights to enjoy the same priorities in your life too.
Today it feels like, “Everybody else loves my work ,but the person I
love is least bothered”and they always have an answer “I love you for the person you are and not your performance”.
Again is the same person really tolerant with your, tantrum, behavior and flaws
. No!!!!! they keep complaining that too. Honestly when the whole circle
praises you, its their intentional motive to over look and ignore your
achievement talent and quality.
They best thing that can solve this situation can only happen when
you fully want it.The only thing you can do about such situation is .Stop over
thinking and give time to activies you are good at. Make your own world a world
outside college or office , a world outside his/her pals or common ones.Not
even a world where your or their realtives are involved. Stay away from
infatuation factor from either side if you can make that circle.Do not
encourage such feelings out there ,trust me that way they can never blame you
on trust issue.
Encourage , busy schedule lots of activities .Trust me,work and work
pressure heals every thing. If you have
no time to think how will you even over
think.
Be honest and loyal to you work.I am not saying do not give time to your partner ,but if you
become busy with work trust me there would never exist issue to worry
about.Giving that particular less time saves it all,your partner might complain
about it first.Later on will learn to understand that you have a life of your
own too and your partner is lucky to
have your time. Both of you will learnt to respect each other better.Both of
you will be able to revive that old spark ,because lack of time will kill that
taken for granted factor.
