Would You call her clingy ,creeper or real lover?

Hovering arround a do gooder teen blog i came across a huge irony .A guy who is extremely fed off with his own problem calls his girlfriend "lovely" and "clingy" at the sametime.The guy mentions they used to be texting the whole day long .this continued an year and he feels he has much more to do in a day.Can any one tell me what the fault of the girl is??? A girl will not keep on texting unless she is attended and this continued for a year .And the guys now feels its disgusting .Well the guy may be attracting sympathy of a few loosers but the fact is if a human being puts up the habbit and nurture it for an year and suddenly her partner tends to loose interest, why does people overlook the frickle mind who gave up?? And the girl is clingy if she protests 
At worst she's insecure, clingy, shallow, jealous, nagging, sensitive, emotional, dramatic, and annoying. But if you can't handle her at her worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve her at her best.She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste.
You call her insecure.
She holds on to you like she's never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she's lucky that she has you, and no, you're not available.
You call her clingy.
She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there's nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed.
You call her shallow and jealous.
Well we do have different kind of guys who nurture different thought about clingy and creepers

1. Sending texts periodically throughout the day.

2. Talking too much about the "future" of our relationship (Don't talk about being married when we've only been going out 3 months!)

3. You are not the only thing in my life and I neither have the time nor the patience to deal with you every day of the week, no matter how much I may like you. Don't call me every day.

4. Making a big deal over anniversaries, especially like 1 month annversary, 4 month anniversary, etc. I would probably bail right then and there.

5. Being my girlfriend does not entitle you to know every little detail about my life and my past. If you ask a question and I don't want to answer, leave it at that.

6. Don't assume that you hanging around when I'm in a bad mood is helping the situation. You may be making things worse.

7. Don't try to become buddy-buddy with my family. There's a reason I'm not close with them and I sure as hell don't want my girlfriend being that way either.

8. I like to keep my love life, my family life, and my social life with my friends all seperate from each other. Respect that.

But the fact is are girls always supposed to be what men want them to be? like he will continue texting you and your taking to much time in the latrin might also bother him.Sudden an year goes you put up the habbit and his enlightened mind told him he is depriving himself from stuff by texting you all day .And You?? You have to accept it .No matter how difficult it is to digest his ignorance and lack of committment you just have to. If you remain busy it is an issue and if
he is taken of by the cheap glam laden colours that are a giant leap away from his proffesion you are supposed to be okay. If you put up a question you are shallow 
If you protest you are just impossible to handle 
If you put up the fight he again proves his manhood saying any other guy if at all existed on his place would have killed himself .Just because its he and so on.You have to accept it if he says no one will ever be able to adjust with you .But if you say the same he might take it to heart well if you too share the habbit of taking it to heart you are tagged drama queen .But his kingship is never prefixed with drama.
If know you are beautiful never let you smile leave you .Even he does not deserve it or you love him so very much that you wont ever allow someone in his place,he would give somebody else your place.He would find someone like he found you to find someone he searched and failed to find in his ex.The one he failed to find in you would definitely be there in his next .He will keep browsing till all his hunger is fed .But as his "find me babe" bachelorhood project ends up his typical indian family would hang a bimbo on his neck fastening them up into holy marraige.And the papa of two -three would still take interest on others .And what about you?? are you a looser? no freaking way.You would obviously respect yourself more for the rest of your life . Not because the wrong guy left you or is still hurting you even if you remain together ,but you loved him more more than he deserves

Are we getting busy or selling off our Principles?

Our  life is like  open  book  nowdays.A huge group  of  people  we virtually  know  almost keeps track  of  when  we  are  waking up ,when  we  are  going to  latrine, whether it was a  bubble bath or  a  warm  shower.Nowdays  we often  confuse  privacy  with  being introvert.We  are humans and  even  in  this  electronically mechanical  lifestyles  we do not forget  to  nurture some feelings.Those feelings  include  love,friendship,kindness and  bondage but  hand in  hand  comes  lust,greed,cruelty and brutalism.Needless  to say  we  need  them  all  but  now days  the later  are predominant .Our phone buzzes with texts and whats app messages all day.Catching-up and how-are-you-calls far and few in between.When did we start getting lazy about relationships?We dream of exploring places and seeing people far off
Having no clue of who lives next door...When did we become more pretentious and less curious?I remember once my  dad  told me  that  one of  his friend  went  abroad  and his  cousin  almost  ate up  the  head of  his  friends  saying how he is  waiting  for  a mere  cigar case his  brother  promised to  bring.People knew  how  to  be  unconditionally  happy.Now, if your cousin  comes first in  his  class  your parents blame their  zodiac  to  produce  you  who is  hovering  arround 5th-6th-7th  and  may be kicked  out of  the top ten circle any times.We were fascinated when one told us they travelled abroad.We now envy the updates and photographs on social networks.When did other's joy start making us feel bad about ourselves? You envy  if  you boyfriend  is  enjoying  rain-dance  dance party  with his guy friends,and he is  undoubtedly  dubbed a moron with lower ethical values.What about  you  do  you  listen  to  miah  ki  malhar  when  it rain? no you  dont  ,instead  you  give it  a face "eewww  dont  tell  me indian  classical  music  can  be romantic".But  when  ragas  blend  to a  bollywood song  the same  vocal artist sings and  Shahid Kapoors  eyes  get wet for  Kareena  the  same  girl  would  say "woo shahid was choo cute na ,can  gimme the  download link?".Life  changes  with  a very  expensive brand name  tagged as  "busy" we  do not  know  how  many dollars can  buy  it.Sometimes  its  cheaper  that whatsapp  forward videos  ,wechant and other chit chat apps .Sometimes  abit too expensive  that  you  sit with your  intel  windows 8  laptop  with  open  full net coverage  still  update  from  blackberry  to  let others know you  use a blackberry  and  you  do not have time .
 

Are You Lonely or Loner?

Most of us have been raised in a crowded family, and are taught to cherish the community, but very often we do acquirean impulse to break away.But this often makes those loving hearts ,that raised us with immence love and care, lonely.But what we confuse is a lonely with a loner.A loner is someone who is occupied to keep pace with the mission of rainfall.The -pitter patter pitter sometimes falling slowly sometimes embarace the window class like the decoits .A lonely person is not necessarily someone who is detouched from a family , she may have a decent family and average relationship still she craves for the company she thinks she deserve but life is depriving her.In the age of social networking, virtual friends, round the clock updating of your activities on Face book or Twitter, having a robust number of "Friends" on FB, why are we getting more and more lonely? Even, if you have your occasional friend's get-together, family dinners etc., don't you feel something amiss somewhere. Is it not the genuineness of relationships that we miss these days? The warmth of true and caring relations? What do you say?

Loneliness is increasingly being seen as a clinical condition, no longer as an indulgence. It has bad effect on a person's health and can be contagious too.Some people have a predisposition to feel lonely while there are some who are happy even when living alone. This demonstrates a quality of happiness and contentment or the lack of it which people are unable to comprehend. In modern times, people are lonelier than ever before despite having all the money and gadgets to pass their time.Sometimes, it may help, when you strike the right chord by choosing an activity which fulfills your needs giving you the much needed mental peace. Sometimes, you may be lucky to find that reliable friend who pulls you out of your loneliness, so it depends on you how you think you can be helped. In sharp contrast, just a hundred years ago, when there were no means of entertainment (even radio or TV) people were more lively and social than us. Today there are hundreds of channels on cable TV and we surf them without any purpose while our parents were happier when there were just 1-2 channels to watch. All the money and gadgets have no doubt made life easier but they have not necessarily made us happier or more content.The problem with us is that we often conclude ourselves into the "Lonely " category.But we often deprive ourselves from the bliss of solitude .