Things You Should Keep In Mind If You are Dating A girl who is a Blogger

If you are dating a girl who is a blogger,you need not worry much about other men.Honestly,She is not even looking at other men. If she blogs about lifestyle,fashion or beauty ,you can actually come to a fair conclusion she watches the bollywood hunk starrer movies only when the feature actresses that are fashionistas,and girls are dying to copy them. So kindly don’t be disheartened if you are not born with Ranbir’s complection or your suntan or hair colour is not much Hritwik style.

You Maturity matters much more than her knowledge of responsiblity:

If you are a teenager,or you have maturity level of a teenager then this is not much a point for you. If you consider yourself a grown up guy,you must me sure about her intention. Remember ,she lives in a world where she is surrounded with clouds of creativity ,if you are with her for pretty long then you can be sure she is serious about you. Honestly, when she is serious about you nomatter how much you hurt her none of those negativity will ever have any reflection on her blog. But every good thing she writes about love, romanticism and relationships are surely the outcome of the best memories you have given her.

Gifts for her is not like go - buy -" Yeah She loves it, who hates girlie stuffs after all" :

She is not much “ I love gifts” person.So buying her gifts may be a lil bit tough job.Remember she loves simple gifts like chocolates ,hand made cards may be customized stuff that may not be very expensive ,still she will love them.

Read Her Blogs not to impress her but to help yourself:

If you read her blogs and she regularly updates,you do not have to worry much about her tastes ,likes and dislikes.Her updates will keep telling you.

If you don’t read her blogs ,its your choice.May  be blogs were never your  favourite  but if her blog’s also don’t catch your attention,It is not her fault ,its your fault. Infact,calling it a fault is a complete disaster,it is your stupidity.When you could know so much about things that she loves,likes and hates even without talking to her about such stuff is’nt it better. Trust me keeping the surprise magic in a relationship is certainly better is’nt it?

Her attachments to internet is bothering you? Why ? Its not the other guys chill Its her competitive skill, nothing else:

Her intimacy with her laptop,Tab even phone is making you insecure sometimes. Even if it is not really insecurity ,you do feel neglected.If you think you deserve more of her time let her know .

But for heaven sake don’t ever think that some other guy is the reason laptop,tab and phone is eating away the time you deserve. She is a blogger , she is keeping a track of her rival bloggers blog, reading her favourite’s blogs so that come up with something that is not much far from her favourites level,and pretty much better than her rival’s. Yes my friend that the story!!

Whoa...!!!! Her Choice Rocks ...keep thinking how she comes up with the best thing that fits budget:

She is the best person to ask for suggestions when it comes to buying gift for someone. Be it your mom’s birthday or your friends anniversary party. She is best person who can give you idea about the best thing that comes in your budget.

Aaahaa...Even that proudy fiance of your friend is her fan ..Its time to get your collar up boy:

She is superstar of your friend’s wifey gang kitty party. No matter how much they nurture cat fights for each other. She is no person’s target anyway. Her suggestions and experience facilitate them too.

Her Observations make Holmes insecure sometimes:

You would not really find her getting involved in small talk girlie gang. She is kind of an observer.She might later tell you some interesting thing about the place both of you visited may be you missed out.

She is kind of interest in every lovely thing:

Bloggers are not really cosmo-oggler. Trust me leave any girl who loves to dress up at that particular floor of the mall where world class brand stores are located, she cant help ogling. But bloggers are so damn used to with such trending stuff that she in real life takes interest in the rarest thing. From a migratory rare trait bird to some unusual restaurant in the town she is kind of interested in everything.

Her Photos ...oohh .Stop torturing that cute lil head of yours if its not you,its no other guy either..Her daddy cool can be that amazing photographer:

If she is not bothering you or actually never bothered you to take her photographs ever. Then stop wasting your time thinking who takes her photos. If her dad is good with cameras trust me he is the only man she trusts with her photo session. Honestly , if you have planned to plan your future with her take your competition seriously. If its not her dad , trust me she hardly believes you men can photograh her from the angle a fashion bloggers is demanded to. It has be her bestie ,some smrt aunt or may be her coolest mom ! you never know.The best part is you don’t need to bother .

Things you should remember when you date a girl who knows how to use her brain

1.Time:

She needs 'me' time and is ready to give you the same.

2.Transparency and" Be you" Freedom

She doesn't make any effort to impress you and that disheartens your male ego many times.Trust me,the glass isn't just half empty its half filled either.When she doesn't really male effort to impress you ,she is not expecting the same .That absolutely opens the way for utter transparency.

3.She is particular about what she deserves:

She doesn't appear possessive but not ready to share the time you reserve for her with anyone.Trust me she appreciate your social life ,but the time you save to give her belongs to her as per her expectation.She is not asking you for all your free time but a solid 30mins saved for her is not supposed to be occupied by you bozo buddies silly "watz up dude" .

4.You are not her agony aunt you are a trust worthy soul mate:

She has got a lot of friends but shares problems only with you coz she trusts you.If you think you have been chosen to play her agony aunt keep one thing in mind she actually deserves better.

5.She is smarter and can be real mean : 

.If she is not the one who hits ugly category and still you can't take your eyes off other women while hanging out with her ,be ready to get pedicree next valentines day.

6. She plays the updated"pro" version of our a mature mind games:

If u have planned to play mind games with her honestly you have planned to play a proud trainer unknowingly. She surely would get a grip to you bloody mind games.If she is not fighting about it or mentioning it ,trust me she is training herself as a better mind gamer and you are the targeted victim.

7. Its not show if but she needs to know that she is special:

Facing the world may be difficult and trust me she allowed her to post her picture in your profile means you are special.May be you need to know her friends need her permission to post a groupfie where she is.Value what you have rather than caring for what others may say.Honestly she is gonna stand by your side when others won't coz you are just another friend/relative/acquaintance in those other,'s life you think who matters.But she cares for you much more than them.Not giving a shit to them won't actually make any difference in you position in those significant other people's life in future.But not giving a shit to her feelings is inviting abandonment for which you and only you will be responsible.If you are dating a girl with brain learn the difference between selfish and harmlessly selfish .
Being harmlessly selfish sometimes can bring peace and happiness to both of you life.

8.Justification is her route:

She is open about her past ,in 90% such cases if you keep your cool and try knowing even if you find that she is the one who dumped many guys ,she had solid reasons.Stop feeling it from "am a boy I feel for a boy's pain" mentality ,judge it from a neutral side you can find her morality. This would make you gain respect for the soul she has.

9.if you r lucky that she is yours show that :

If you are proud to have her and feel lucky that she is yours show it.Show it to her ,show it to the world.She is not dieing for your validation honestly.She just needs to stay confirmed that the person she is showering her valuable time with understands her true value.One the other hand if you think that kind off show of is not your cup of tea ,don't drink it man.If you nurture the idea that every guys lady of is special to him,what's there to show? Yeah indeed if it was so why did you not select someone from those every other girl man? You chose her coz she is special ,you can deny it now but you literally tried you level best to get her attention.Now when you have it not giving it value is not boosting your male ego.Value it or watch somebody else doing that.

10.women certified "Best guys" are human too

The best guys are not naturally blessed ones.When you watch a bewitchingly attractive lady giving a peck on the check of her average appearing husband you guys get envious.Simple man that guy is much ahead of you.His wife never noticed his eyes loitering around other girls .Not because he is good in hiding but he literally ditched that habit.He also knows about his wife's flaws he is not good in hiding them he learned to overlook and forgive.He is good in expressing his heart,it doest not hurt his male ego to express his love for her in public.



So guys stop taking advice from your fellow friends they know women as much as you do .Learn what the person you are dating loves.You literally have to take initiative to explore her taste .Be awesome trust me you would never have bitter experience about women.She is priceless value her she would show you what your value is like noboby ever did